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I’m sure there are guys who have had much more experience and success than me in this game, but having had a go on a few online dating websites over the years I can tell you, from my experience, there is no magic formula to getting a date.

I suppose it all depends what you are looking for and what dating site(s) you are using. Did you know, depending on what dating site you are using, some girls get anywhere between 100-600+ messages a day from guys (and probably girls)!

This is no different then being in crowded bar or club when there is a ratio of  men to women is 10:1. This is why you may not get a response from an email you send.

I do think that dating sites are a great form of leverage to be used around picking up women “offline” be it at a bar, party or anywhere for that matter.

Why?

Because the Internet is on 24 hours a day. So its kind of like being on the “pull” 24/7. If your like me (health conscious) and don’t really like going out drinking and staying out late to often to find women, then dating sites are a useful tool.

This blog post is more about casual dating, making friends rather than finding a long-term partner. Which doesn’t happen too often with online dating. This is because the first date it literally a “bind date.” When you meet someone “offline” you can tell, more so, before going on a date with them, if you are going to click. Therefore, you can make a better decision if you really want to go on a date with that girl, just by the energy you give off to one another.

But saying that, a friend of mine did meet a girl online, has now had a baby with her, and they have been together for a number of years. I have also heard that many people have ended up getting married from meeting on dating sites. So it can work like that!

A lot of women do get feed up by receiving rude and weird emails from guys. I know this as many women have told me personally, face to face.

For the most part, I would just use a well written, confident, concise, to the point email that you can copy and paste (and tweaked if needed). If you are constantly re-writing loads of new and different messages to different girls, you are wasting your time! I have heard that one guy didn’t even get even ONE reply after being on a site for several years!

Just like picking up women offline, you are playing a numbers game. So you’re best of looking for the girls you like the look and sound of and send them your well written (copied) email.

Some of the more experienced women who have using online dating sites before know that you have used a copied and pasted email, and may send you a rude reply. So what, that’s their potential loss.

If you find a girl you REALLY like the look of and get a good energy from her picture(s) and profile, then feel free to tweak your email if you feel it will improve your chances of getting a reply. But current stats say that only one in three girls will reply to your email on any given site anyhow.

Sometimes it can be less or more than that depending on what time you are on the site, and what site you are using. Otherwise it may be best using an instant messenger if the website has one.

So, here are a few of my tips that should improve your chances of getting a date going – online.

1- Have a well written, honest profile. Something like this:

2- Have clear pictures of you smiling. A lot of women get feed up with just seeing torso and other related type pictures

3- Have a compelling headline. This may need to be tweaked depending what website you are using.

4- Again, when you email someone you like, use a well written, confident, concise and really to the point email that you can copy and paste (and tweaked if needed). Something like this:

Some sites say don’t put your contact details in on your first email as you need to build trust and rapport. If you’re like me and cant be bothered with sending loads of emails, then ask for a number swap and add in your number within your first email,  if you want. If she just wants to email first, then work with that.

Websites with fake profiles which are fairly easy to spot as the all the pictures of the girls are usually professional, model type photos. So it make sense not to put your contact details, when sending an email to a profile that you think is fake. You dont know who is on the other end.

5- Depending what mood you are in, use the spray and pray method. That’s means sending out dozens of the same messages in one go (casting out your net) and see what you “pull in.” You never know, you may catch a few golden nugets!

6- Use sites with loads of members and have had good reviews (and try the best FREE sites first). Don’t got spending 20-30 quid a month on loads of sites that your are not having much success with. That’s no different than paying for a gym membership and not using it. If you are paying for something you definitely want to get some RESULTS!

7- Only use sites that match what you are looking for. For example, it doesn’t make sense joining a site like Sex in the UK if your looking for a long-term girlfriend.

8- Use their instant messenger if the site has one – if you catch a girl you like online. This is (kind of) the same as approaching a women at bar. You need to think on your toes!

9 – Try to find only confident women who really know what they want. For example, they say they didn’t want one night stands but more casual dating. You go on a first date with them which is all good for both parties. You then try to get back in touch with them after the first date, and they say they don’t want anything casual. So they got what they didn’t want in the first place!!

10- Be clear in your profile about what you want at the present time.

Best of luck!

P.S you may also want to check out this meetup group my friend set up for people living in and around London.

P.P.S do you feel that your sex drive and mojo is lower than it should be? Then these health tips will help.

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